25. Relaxing into Relationships
Page 1

[Panel 1] NARRATOR: “It’s hard for me to relax into love because I’ve learnt that:”
[Panel 1] NARRATOR: “relaxing ↓ forgetting something ↓ disaster & punishment”
[Panel 1] ALIEN: “What if I’m just bad at love?”
[Footer] SIGNATURE: “More Comics: ♡ ADHD-alien.com”
Page 2

[Panel 1] NARRATOR: “My ADHD comes with real, severe consequences.”
[Panel 1] OFFSCREEN VOICE: ""Just relax""
[Panel 1] OFFSCREEN VOICE: ""You’re just cat-astrophizing""
[Panel 1] NARRATOR: “I once forgot to answer my insurance so it got cancelled.”
[Footer] SIGNATURE: “More Comics: ♡ ADHD-alien.com”
Page 3

[Panel 1] NARRATOR: “It’s making me feel disconnected at times where I should feel attached,”
[Panel 1] NARRATOR: “where I should be bonding and loving.”
[Panel 1] NARRATOR: “It makes me feel like I’m just bad at love.”
[Footer] SIGNATURE: “More Comics: ♡ ADHD-alien.com”
Page 4

[Panel 1] NARRATOR: “Worse, it makes me resentful.”
[Panel 1] ALIEN: ""He doesn’t have to deal with all of this!""
[Panel 1] ALIEN: ""Now I need to be loving on top of everything!""
[Panel 1] NARRATOR: “And again, I’m failing at being loving.”
Page 5

[Header] SIGNATURE: “More Comics: ♡ ADHD-alien.com”
[Panel 1] BOYFRIEND: “You’re worried again, hm?”
[Panel 1] ALIEN: “Yup.”
[Panel 1] BOYFRIEND: “It’s ok, let’s go through our to-dos.”
[Panel 1] NARRATOR: “But you see me.”
Page 6

[Panel 1] NARRATOR: “Instead of demanding I function, you try to reach me where I’m at.”
[Panel 1] NARRATOR: “You’re not trying to save me,”
[Panel 1] NARRATOR: “you just make an effort to see MY reality.”
[Footer] SIGNATURE: “More Comics: ♡ ADHD-alien.com”
Page 7

[Panel 1] NARRATOR: “I don’t have to hide myself so that I can love the way I’m “supposed to”.”
[Panel 1] NARRATOR: “I owe it to me to allow my feelings, and to you to voice them.”
[Footer] SIGNATURE: “More Comics: ADHD-alien.com”
Part of ADHD Alien comics.